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The ubiquitous whips and chains. We actually call our play spaces dungeons. People are placed on racks and other devices of pain and torment that look like they come right out of the Spanish Inquisition. All that stuff looks pretty wicked. Most of the time, BDSM play is no more physically or 36 The Courage to Submit mentally damaging than playing cops and robbers was when we were children.

We used to chase each other around, tie each other up, throw each other in jail, and torture each other until we got confessions out of our playmates. At dinner time, we all went home, and nobody was the worse for the experience. To be fair, there is a minor segment of the BDSM community who likes to dabble a bit in occult imagery and philosophy. They are a small minority, though.

Most of the people in the BDSM world are simply living out harmless fantasies. Most adults quit playing when they hit puberty. People like us are just adults who keep playing all our lives. The people into those activities are all grown ups who never stopped playing and dressing up in fun costumes. M and I have actually run into many of the same people at Comic Con, our local Renaissance Fair, and fetish parties in the same weekend.

Never mind the fact that there are literally thousands of women who make their livings as professional dominatrixes. Even if we ignore the ten ton elephant in the room that is professional domination, there is still overwhelming evidence that proves that female domination and male submission are not the domain of a small group of people.

And for whatever reason, we enjoy it more. ALL women should smell like that! Some people think that strip clubs are all about victimizing women. Strip clubs victimize men. Not to have sex, but definitely to get fucked. The more a woman takes off her clothes, the more power she has, and feminists hate strippers because modem professional 39 The Courage to Submit 40 The Courage to Submit women cannot stand the thought that their hard won achievements can be outweighed in an instant by a young hussy flashing a little tits and ass.

Strippers know how to tap into the core nature of men. Although guys often date or marry the nice girls, they always return to the women who know how to make us guys weak with desire. As men, we need that super hot, crazy sexy girl in sky high heels, g-strings, and lingerie. These women, the strippers and escorts, these modem day courtesans use their beauty and skill to seduce and enslave men, at least for a while.

The guys come back again and again for this treatment. And we gladly pay for the privilege. They stand above us, enticing us. They wear it in their panties or garters like 41 The Courage to Submit trophies. Sadly and somewhat surprisingly, many women have almost no concept of the power of female sexuality. These women have an awesome power that they allow to lay fallow. They choose to think that somehow men are different than they are.

At least their men are different is the myth they choose to believe. But men get it. Some of us are afraid of it. Some of us feel guilty. Some men get angry because of it More on that later , but we all understand it. On her website, Ms. Sutton compares a man accepting his submissive desires to a man learning that he has a million dollars in the bank.

My opinion is actually the reverse. Once she is made aware of what she possesses, a woman can begin to spend her metaphorical money. Until she knows the account exists, she may have needlessly lived like a pauper. When I met her, although she was already interested in the female domination lifestyle, Ms.

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M had only a hazy, theoretical understanding of the power women have over men. Even though she had attended a few meetings, munches, and BDSM scene parties, she did not fully understand the power within her. Often, when a novice domme enters this lifestyle, some self professed experts teach her about BDSM techniques. They teach her the motions, how to properly swing a flogger or strike with a riding crop and how to use handcuffs. That stuff is important, sure, but what these experts often neglect are the more important psychological aspects.

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The tacit message is that you have to become proficient in green belt techniques before you are allowed to enter tournaments. I think this is wrong. This attitude is probably conveyed most often in the situations where a fledgling Mistress is learning from a male dominant. A woman accepting and embracing her dominance is like a bird learning to fly. She already has 43 The Courage to Submit the wings. But she either has to find the courage to leap off the branch or somebody has to give her a little push.

M came to realize just how easily and completely a woman can use her erotic power to overwhelm a man. I will get more into the foot fetish party in the chapter on fetish parties. For now, a brief explanation of a foot fetish party is that it is a gathering at which men pay women for the privilege of worshipping their feet. Basically, instead of a lap dance or table dance, a guy pays a lady to worship her feet. These events are held all over the country and in a couple of cities in Canada as well. When one was scheduled for our town, I alerted Ms.

She was intrigued. She had never been paid in cash for an erotic encounter. She was kind of excited at the opportunity to be half a pro domme for one day. On the day of the party, Ms. M was really nervous. I tried to ease her mind as I drove to the strip club where the party was being held. I reminded Ms. M that I would be her security that day, and no harm would come to her. For the party, Ms. M had picked out a smoking hot outfit to wear. She wore a fence net mini dress over black bra and thong. She wore spiked heeled platform sandals that strapped around her ankles.

To add an air of mystery, she wore a high quality black leather domino mask. Oh yeah, she also brought along her five foot single tail whip. In the dressing room, Ms. M found herself acting as coach and mentor to the young ladies. Although she was initially anxious, once on the floor Ms.

M quickly found her confidence. She stalked the club selecting her prey. As she took twenty after twenty from the adoring men, she began to see the male of the species much more clearly. One man after another licked and sucked Ms. She made one young man crawl on the floor behind her in front of everyone. One man actually begged Ms. M to whip him. She gladly obliged him. When another of her worshippers told her that he was down to his last twenty dollar bill, Ms.

M casually plucked it from his hand. She admitted to me later that she did not feel the slightest bit guilty over it. Her only regret was that she did not drag that man over to the ATM in the club so that he could withdraw more money to give to her. Seeing men in their natural habitat gave Ms. M a new appreciation for her power as a woman.

The majority of women exist in a mundane reality of their own making. Because it is in direct contradiction to their personal philosophies, these women choose to believe that only certain sad, pathetic men are that vulnerable to female sexuality. Men know better. More than that, we enjoy that feeling of vulnerability that certain women can make us feel.

The problem is, once a man comes down from that high, he can feel embarrassed. He retreats and he may even feel resentment toward the woman who made him feel so exposed. A wise woman knows how to address those feelings in a man. She can help alleviate those pangs of guilt and shame. And a wise man will recognize those feelings in himself and deal with them instead of trying to run away from them. It originally aired 46 The Courage to Submit on May 7, Sidney is a woman who virtually enslaves every man with whom she comes into contact.

She hires only men, and all her employees live to serve her. She is the queen bee in her hive. As a reward for work well done, she allows one of her employees to lick her forearm a privilege the man begged for. Within two minutes of having met her new attorney Richard whom she calls Richie , Sidney has him begging to suck on her toe. After briefly feigning reluctance, she relents.

Richard is practically orgasmic before he even gets off the couch. What I really loved about that episode was the choice of Ms. Lahti to play the part of Sidney. Lahti is an attractive woman, but she is no raving beauty. And at the time she was fifty-one years old. In one scene, Sidney stops by the office. If only all women were like Sidney! Unfortunately, women who are aware of and exercise their power the way Sidney did are relatively rare.

There are millions, maybe even tens of millions of men who feel the same way you do. Flip through any fashion magazine, and you will likely see advertisements depicting models and celebrity women with their high heels resting on male models. One brand of hosiery uses almost exclusively female domination imagery in their print advertisements.

Some of the ads have a woman walking a few guys like dogs, the men wearing collars and leashes. If you want to see these images and about a million others, do internet searches for femdom in ads or femdom in the media. There are about a zillion examples of the femme fatale in popular culture. Ginger was able to use her feminine wiles to wrap any guy around her little finger except that eunuch 48 The Courage to Submit Gilligan.

And I think her magic even worked on him once or twice. And what was the deal with the professor? But I digress. There was a girl in that movie who could knock a guy senseless from across the room just by shaking her ass in his direction. Men and dogs had better get used to it. Newmar was the epitome of the dominant woman. For me and millions of other boys, Catwoman was the personification of our innate desires.

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In the first place, she had a twenty-two inch waist and thirty-eight inch hips. She strutted around in a gleaming, 49 The Courage to Submit skintight black what else? She was about six feet tall, a true descendant of the Amazons. She sat on a leopard print throne with her male minions sitting or kneeling at her feet. She carried a whip, and she did not hesitate to give her boys a taste of the lash for the slightest disobedience, insolence, or insubordination. When she was displeased, Catwoman would kick her henchmen away from her. She used the spiked heels of her ankle high boots as weapons.

And she was so seductive when she tied up Batman and Robin and left them to their fates. I clearly remember the first time I became aware of my own erections. They were inspired by Julie Newmar, the Catwoman. Being only two or three years old at the time, I had no idea what the heck was going on down there. He did not! He just laughed, the old swine. I think he even told my mother. That was the last time I ever confided in him. She was terrific. M and I took pictures with her, got autographs, and I was able to tell her that I have loved her since I was two years old.

I thought I would die right then and there. I was like Rudolph the red nosed reindeer in that Christmas special. Marsha, Queen of Diamonds. Marsha, as part of her plan to take over Gotham City would drug unsuspecting men. She used a miniature Cupid Cupid statue that shot little arrows dipped in a love potion that her eccentric aunt Hilda had concocted. When one of the darts would hit a man, he would fall instantly and hopelessly in love with Marsha. He would give Marsha anything and everything just to be near her.

She kept her worshippers in cages. It would be a long time before I would have the nerve to do something like that, but even then I was excited by the idea of such a public display of humility and worship. I fell in love with Marsha with no need to be hit with a drugged dart. Even at that young age, I knew that I wanted a cruel, capricious woman to keep me in a cage too. Get out of the way, Commissioner. There are many more examples of female dominance from TV and movies. Those dark haired counterparts to the goody-goody blond 53 The Courage to Submit protagonists were not about to obey any mortal man.

They tormented and tortured the guys just for the fun of it. How I wished that were me. She put Spade in a giant cage and left him in her apartment. These warrior women lived in absolute luxury while all the males suffered through a life of drudgery and physical labor. The leader of this race of Amazons was a woman named Noble Niolani. It has a reflective quality that captures and magnifies all light and color in the room. She informed young Will that the male is nothing and that the female is everything. She arrogantly commanded her brother to pick up an item she had deliberately dropped to the ground.

Smith had willingly remained the slaves of the women Hell, the Condor women even enslaved the robot, since he was a male robot. If Noble Niolani was on every week, I would have never missed an episode of that show. James, one of the bad guys from Team Rocket was waylaid by a young lady from his past. She ambushed him in her dungeon that was furnished with a variety of torture devices.

The lady pursued the fleeing James and punished him with her six foot bullwhip as he ran to and fro, crying while trying to escape her clutches. At that point a door opens and Valerie Leon emerges, her double Ds spilling over her low cut black leather outfit. She proceeds to use her bullwhip to administer pain to a cringing, whining, fleeing Peter Sellers.

That brief scene was the only reason I went to that movie. But I had seen a glimpse of that scene in a preview on television. I rushed right out to see it. I only wished the whole movie was scene after scene of Valerie whipping and humiliating the inspector. Liv, wearing a sexy outfit complete with elbow length leather gloves, punishes Reiser with a riding crop. He enjoys it, too. Reba acts like she never heard of such things Some psychiatrist. Where the hell did she go to school? Once again, Hollywood sends the hypocritical message that female domination is sick and wrong even though there are a lot of Hollywood actors, directors, and producers who are regular clients of professional dominatrixes.

In that movie, the ladies use their beauty and seductive charms to manipulate various 56 The Courage to Submit men in an effort to get their hands on their money. Weaver who seems to get more beautiful the older she gets ties Ray Liotta to a bed and makes him kiss her foot. Hart, played by Dabney Coleman. She did a total reversal on Mr. Hart, blatantly sexually harassing him in the office.

She chases him down the hall, lassos him, and hogties him. Later, when the girls actually do kidnap Mr. Hart, they put him into elaborate bondage gear complete with a ball gag. The most famous was probably Jennifer and Artemis Antone. They made several videos separately and together. In one video, they invite a guy over to judge which of them is the better smotheress. These images exist because they strike a chord in so many of us. When sweet and innocent Sandy Olivia Newton John wants to take control of Danny John Travolta , she dons black leather and four inch mules. At that point, Danny crawls after Sandy like an obedient pet.

There are some who would suggest that the image of the dominant woman resonates with most if not all men. I have no doubt that the writers are playing out their own fantasies of female domination through their scripts. In every instance where a woman displays power over men, she is punished for it. Female domination is often depicted as something evil.

At the end of the stories, the powerful woman is either punished, or at least she sees the error of her ways and repents. If there is a female dominated society at the beginning of the story, by the end, everything is egalitarian, and everyone is happy. I just wish that once they could have the story end with all the men happily serving and 58 The Courage to Submit submitting to their Mistresses. Some people would have you believe that some image of female domination you saw at an early age caused you to be submissive.

I liken our fascination with female domination images to a kitten getting its first taste of tuna. But until you open that first can, the kitten has no idea tuna even exists. But once it gets its first nibble, the kitten goes nuts. Can I have some more? But once exposed, we knew we had found what we really needed. Pop music and music videos frequently have femdom messages in the lyrics and images portrayed. The singer Rihanna projects a dominatrix image on and off stage. She wears thigh high boots, leather, latex, and vinyl all the time.

Look on Youtube for Janet Jackson concert footage. On one of her tours, every night when she got to a certain song, she would stalk the stage, looking for a suitable victim from the audience.


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Clad in head to toe skintight black pleather, she would choose her prey. A young man who had been pointed out by Janet would be brought onstage and placed in restraints on a large platform. Once he was suitably immobilized, Janet would mount the trembling, sweating man. The horizontal platform would slowly rise to a vertical position. As she sang, Janet would feel him up, breathe on him, and drive him to the brink with her body, climbing all over her victim as if he were playground equipment and practically dry humping him. I think Janet made one guy actually come in his pants. I almost did, and I was only watching.

The audience would scream its approval, everyone enjoying Ms. Many popular songs make reference to female dominance. Sometimes the songs are subtle, sometimes 60 The Courage to Submit blatant. The man is reveling in her mistreatment of him. The lyrics describe the pride a man feels when he goes through hell for his woman. The guy described in this song is eager to prove his devotion. I remember when I pointed out to Ms. M what are unmistakable submissive feelings in the lyrics of that song. M was surprised that she had missed what now seems so obvious.

Note the worshipful, adoring lyrics. She's blood, flesh and bone no tucks or silicone She's touch, smell, sight, taste and sound but somehow I can 't believe that anything should happen I know where I belong and nothing's gonna happen, yeah. A first class and fancy free, she's high society, she's got the best of everything. What could a guy like me ever really offer? When a man loves a woman Can't keep his mind on nothing else He'll trade the world For the good thing he's found If she's bad he can't see it She can do no wrong Turn his back on his best friend If he put her down When a man loves a woman Spend his very last dime Tryin' to hold on to what he needs He'd give up all his comfort Sleep out in the rain If she said that's the way it ought to be Well, this man loves a woman I gave you everything I had Tryin ' to hold on to your precious love Baby, please don 't treat me bad When a man loves a woman Down deep in his soul She can bring him such misery If she plays him for a fool He's the last one to know 67 The Courage to Submit Lovin ' eyes can 't ever see When a man loves a woman She can do no wrong He can never own some other girl Yes when a man loves a woman I know exactly how he feels, 'cause baby, baby, baby, you 're my world There are probably about a million more songs like these.

Songs of praise and worship for the woman the writer of the song loves. There is a strong streak of masochism in these songs. They feel the same worship and awe of women that we do. These desires are a part of you. They may be a major part of your sexuality, the only things that do it for you. They are for me.


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  • I am aware of no successes. Be honest. And there is nothing wrong with that. Once again, Camille Paglia puts it so succinctly. Putting the vamp back means the lady must be a tramp. My generation of the Sixties rebels wanted to smash the bourgeois codes that had become authoritarian totems of the Fifties A lot of other guys have been dealt the same hand. My theory is that a lot of guys are furious at women because they desire women so much.

    Instead of celebrating and enjoying the sexual power of women, those jerks lash out because of it. Whenever I would see the previously mentioned Catwoman, Marsha, Queen of Diamonds, or those Amazons from the planet Venus, I knew that there was some common thread running through them. I soon became aware of other movies that had any scenes of women dominating men. When Pryor returns home, his wife tries to tap into his more sophisticated tastes by donning leather lingerie, tying him to the bed, and whipping him with a flogger.

    I watched it every night when I was a teenager. Not only was it hilarious and filled with hot women, it had frequent female domination themed sketches. I remember one time they did a circus scene where a Germanic woman whipped and mistreated a performing centaur. When Benny, in clown garb, dared to interfere, the stiletto booted ring mistress gave Benny a taste of the lash.

    Another skit was vaudevillian themed. When her men did their tricks properly, the female trainer would reward them with a morsel of food that was hand fed to them. When they screwed up, she 72 The Courage to Submit was quick to administer the lash. Another good Benny Hill skit took place at a bus stop. A bunch of guys were molesting a timid young lady. When the men finally went too far, the woman transformed before their eyes into a green skinned, muscular She-Hulk type character. After she grew several inches in height and girth, the growling lady ripped off her outer clothes to reveal a vinyl dominatrix type outfit complete with thigh high boots.

    A whip magically appeared in her hands. She began punishing her tormentors. The more she beat them, the faster they ran after her. Their eyes rolled as their faces contorted into expressions of pained ecstasy. The men were still chasing the fleeing She-Hulk as the credits ran to the accompaniment of kazoo music. In the club, the women were served by an obedient male staff. The women openly abused the boys, kicking and slapping them and using them as furniture. When it was time to go, the ladies imaginatively used men as their vehicles.

    Another good place to get a dose of female domination was the talk shows. I recall when I was in about the tenth grade reading the TV listing of a show I badly wanted to see. To this day, I regret that I did not fake an illness so that I could have stayed home from school and watched 73 The Courage to Submit it. On a local talk show, a woman named Amazon Supreme Velvet Rhodes appeared to speak about the superiority of women.

    At least I got to read an interview that was done with her in the local newspaper. In the interview, Ms. Rhodes described her female dominant lifestyle. I was so turned on by reading it that I think I still have a copy of that interview tucked away somewhere. It was a Canadian show, I recall.

    I think I was about fourteen years old at the time. Grace Jones, the Jamaican singer with the close cropped hair was performing on the show. You may have seen Ms. She is about six feet tall and very lean, powerful and athletic looking. Grace has an androgynous style. She is not my ideal physical type, but I very much admire her strong persona.

    Grace was and is very popular in the gay male world. She sometimes appeared onstage dragging a whip behind her. As she sang, Ms. She stopped next to a man sitting by the aisle. As the man looked up at her with a wide eyed worshipful look on his face, Grace looked down at him disdainfully. The entranced man slipped from his chair in one liquid move and knelt before Grace.

    She put her hand on his head as if he were a favorite pet. I felt this mysterious heat rise all through my body. At that moment, I would have given anything to trade places with that kneeling man. Lucky for me, my father had a shit load of pom stashed in the attic of our house. He used to get his pom at a bookstore that had two sections separated by a swinging door.

    On one side, you could get newspapers, regular magazines, candy, and lottery tickets. On the other side was the porn. Once in a while, when I was with him, dad would visit the store. Over thirty 75 The Courage to Submit years later, I still get my pom from that very same store. A little while back, the store had an advertisement extolling all its DVDs and couples friendly materials.

    I went right up to the manager and told him with a smile that his sign was false advertising. He was a connoisseur of the stuff. He had a few Playboys, Penthouses, and Hustlers. In it, there was a dominatrix character who used to really turn me on. In one episode, the dominatrix, whose name was Charlotte, used an elaborate torture device to repeatedly dunk Senator Ted Kennedy into a giant pool of water. Most of the things I know, I did not leam in school. Besides those magazines, dad had a lot of other materials as well.

    There were contact magazines filled with personal advertisement, amateur mags, and a few semi-hard core magazines. He also had a pretty good number of paperback pom novels and short story collections. And lest you think the old man was some kind of dangerous creep, there was no kiddie pom or beastiality. My dad was a straight up heterosexual man. I learned a lot. I especially liked the contact magazines. I think I liked them so much because I wanted to meet real dominant women, not just fantasize about them.

    The fact that there were dominatrixes advertising in these publications meant that they were really out there somewhere. I knew that I had a chance to meet these women in real life someday. Back then, in order to answer a personals ad, you had to send a letter to the magazine along with a dollar or two. The magazine would then forward your letter to the advertiser you had indicated. I remember encountering, amongst the ads for swingers and casual sex partners, the first advertisements for professional dominatrixes that I had ever seen. I still remember my breath coming short and my stomach tightening.

    HERE was what I had been looking for! Now I could see the big picture. All that Catwoman and space Amazon stuff I had been watching for years was finally gelling! Those fictional depictions were all just watered down dominatrixes. The dominant women in the magazines all wore outfits that were similar to those TV, movie, and comic book characters I had been lusting after since I was riding a tricycle. The high heels, the whips, the boots, the black leather and vinyl, it was all right before my eyes. But now there were no childish plots or half- 77 The Courage to Submit baked excuses for the women to look and behave this way.

    The adverts stated in straightforward language who and what they were and what they were seeking. These women existed in real life! It was like some sort of validation of all the fantasies that I had and all the connections that I recognized in the quasi- femdom materials on television and in movies. Many of those early dominatrixes were arrested on BS morals or vice charges. Even today, in some backwards areas and sometimes even in the big cities , being a professional dominatrix can still get you arrested. All the ladies practicing female domination who came after them owe a huge debt of gratitude to those brave women who paved the way, often at a huge personal price.

    In one scene, while talking about the various women he has known all over the country, Crane remarks that Atlanta is a great town for domination. He was right. In the seventies, besides New York and California, Atlanta was where it was all happening. I kept some of those magazines and read and re-read those ads. I remember seeing in print for the first time terms like foot worship, B and D, and female superiority.

    My mind would race as I figured out what those phrases meant. A few however, were from cities closer to me. I knew now that all my desires had been pointing in this direction. I felt this tremendous frustration at the fact that it would be several years before I would be old enough to indulge in these fantasies. I knew then that I must meet these dominant women who tied up and tortured men for fun and profit.

    I knew that when I grew up, I would somehow become the slave of these super women in their outrageously sexy costumes. Besides the contact magazines, I loved reading the short stories and novels my dad had tucked away. The bulk of the materials did nothing for me. Most of it was filled with regular fuck and suck stories that mostly bored me. One that really turned me on at the time although in hindsight, I realize it was totally unrealistic involved a wife who takes her husband to a professional dominatrix for training.

    When the husband did not obey her commands immediately, the dominatrix used her bullwhip on him. Once the professional Mistress had broken and trained him, the husband was meek and completely obedient to his wife. I still recall the dominatrix stating that the wife would threaten to bring him back to the Mistress if ever he should return to his disobedient ways. I even remember a specific phrase from that story.

    I thought that was really hot. Once again, I felt the frustration of my youth. I tried and tried to get my hands on a copy to no avail. I even took a trip to the largest library in town. I claimed that I had to do research for a school project. These days, you can get a copy delivered to your doorstep in two days from Amazon. There are even a couple of movies based on the book as well. Of course I have them 80 The Courage to Submit as well as two or three copies of the book.

    I even have a graphic novel version of it. Y ou bought this book to learn how to find a Mistress of your own, not to learn all about my life story or learn what books to read or movies to watch. Let me assure you though, that the psychological aspects are important. I am positive that the reason most submissive men do not have a Mistress to serve is that their thinking is all muddled. I had a good friend in this life who died a few years ago. He was only in his forties. I am not trying to say that lack of a Mistress will actually kill you, but denying yourself the thing you desire most in this world can result in some very negative consequences in your life.

    So just how do you attract a Mistress? How do you become a slave to a dominant woman? And when you are trying to attract a woman, any woman, whether 82 The Courage to Submit dominant or completely vanilla, you have to do the things that will make her want you. Learn how to dress, at least a little. Get rid of the 8 Ball jacket. And ditch those run over shoes. Get a haircut. Women love a great smile on a man.

    But even the handsomest man can drive a woman away if he has a mouth like old Jack of the Lantern. Keep your car clean and in good running order. Just be clean and neat. Exercise a bit. Make some attempt at keeping in shape. For some reason, there are an inordinate number of people in our scene who are morbidly obese. I know this is America. And Big Macs taste wonderful. But there is a big difference between being ten pounds overweight and 83 The Courage to Submit two hundred pounds overweight.

    Please bathe. No woman wants to smell body odor or something worse when you take off your clothes. There is a statistic bandied about that there are at least ten submissive men for every dominant woman. Out of those ten men, four are married and looking for a little action on the side. Two of them will make initial contact with a Mistress and then never follow up.

    Two of those guys will look and smell like Jabba the Hutt. One will have some serious emotional or psychological issues. That leaves the tenth guy. Not long term, anyway. Any Mistress I have ever served for any length 85 The Courage to Submit of time has been a lady I would be proud to escort anyplace. Guys, do yourselves a favor. Learn to conjugate. They are looking for long term slaves or boyfriends or husbands who share their interests. You have to try to be as close to the total package as you can. Over the next several chapters, I am going to outline and illustrate several things you can do.

    Some may be better suited to your situation and lifestyle than others. Some guys have to exercise more discretion than others. But whoever you are and whatever 86 The Courage to Submit your situation, you have to do something. A man desperately wants to win the lottery. This goes on every night for years. Buy a ticket, at least! Come hear the music play, Life is a Cabaret, old chum, Come to the Cabaret. They can be fantastic places to meet a Mistress.

    If you have never been to one, fetish parties are gatherings of people who are into several forms of alternative lifestyles. These events are usually held at a bar or club. Most are not. Often the fetish party is a mix of people into BDSM, the goth scene, cross dressing, a few people who are merely curious. Sometimes there is a dress code, sometimes not. These are not sex parties or orgies.

    Usually there is a DJ or live band. Sometimes there is a fashion show or some sort of performance. I love these parties. If there is a fetish party coming up anywhere near where you live, GO. Sometimes, magic can happen at a fetish party. Usually some forms of BDSM play are allowed at fetish parties. I have been to parties where a bunch of guys lay down on the floor in a row, a long carpet was laid over the line, and the ladies walked across the human red carpet.

    That is fun. In no time they go from timid and shy to giddy and enthusiastic. Sometimes the girls even pause to dance on the chest of some of the guys. Good times.

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    You might even meet the woman of your dreams at a fetish party. I did. If you live in a major city, you should have no trouble finding BDSM or alternative lifestyle events. Look in your weekly free newspapers or search the internet for events. If you are lucky enough to live in New York, California, or London, it will be a simple matter to find some great parties attended by some incredibly beautiful and dominant women.

    Some of these ladies will be big names in the scene, beautiful ladies you have seen and probably wanked to on the internet. If you search the internet, you can find some incredible BDSM and female dominant themed parties. These are all annual events held in some of the most exciting and glamorous cities in the world. These gatherings are spectacle, 89 The Courage to Submit festival, and celebration all in one, and they are fantastic. Y our senses will likely be overloaded. These events are attended by hundreds of people. There is food and drink.

    There are stage shows by celebrity dominatrixes, and there are gobs of beautiful people decked out in awesome costumes. You can see lots of pictures from their events at Clubpedestal. I would love to travel to England and attend a Club Pedestal party some day. What I like most about the pictures of their parties is that a sense of enjoyment can be seen in the faces of the ladies. All the ladies, of various ages, sizes, races, and attractiveness levels are just beaming as they are served by men wearing the leather dog collars that are mandatory for all the guys in attendance.

    A lot of the articles seem to be sexual in nature. The Club Pedestal article recounted the fun the girls had trampling men and using them as dance floors. As the ladies stood and lay on men and used them as footstools, you can see the genuine joy in their faces. That article probably gave the female domination lifestyle a lot of good public relations.

    I know that it can be intimidating and downright scary to go to a fetish party, even a small local one, never mind the mega events. You may feel like you could never muster up enough courage to ever really go through with it. I know how you feel. You have to be persistent. A new BDSM club was opening up in my home town! I could hardly believe it. I felt like Jerry Seinfeld in his famous bit about being a child and finding out about free candy on Halloween. What did it matter that I was still technically underage?

    The opportunity to interact with dominant women would be intoxicating enough for me. Once I knew there was a place in my own home town where I could meet actual Mistresses, I knew that nothing could keep me from it. To say that I was nervous that first time would be an enormous understatement. I was terrified! On the drive to the club, my heart was racing. I was so nervous that I had to turn off the radio so that I could concentrate. I was nearly hyperventilating. To make things worse, the club was in a rather rough part of town.

    I had to watch my back, and I also had to worry about my car. If anything happened to it, I had no way to explain what I was even doing in that area. The fellow who owned the 92 The Courage to Submit place was manning the door of the club. This guy was kind of a big shot in the BDSM world in those days, and he had no intention of letting some seventeen year old punk with a bullshit fake ID into his club.

    Yet somehow I think I must have used the Jedi mind trick on the man. I paid my money, and he buzzed me in! Once inside, I was not disappointed. The club was, as Ernest Hemingway would have said, a clean well lighted place. There was a nice bar area and a stage on the one side of the main room. And all over the place were real live grown-up ladies carrying whips and wearing leather outfits and spiked heeled boots and shoes. For me, this was heaven. Before the night was over, I found myself on the floor worshipping the boots and the stockinged feet of a petite lady who must have been in her late twenties or early thirties.

    I think her name was Mistress Kat. She was really sweet. She could tell that I was young and relatively inexperienced, so she broke me in slowly and gently. I hope I run into her again some day. I went to the club a few more times. It would not be long however, before the place closed down. While it was open though, some great parties were thrown there.

    Some of the biggest names from the BDSM community came from all over the country to attend. What eye candy that was. Beautiful dominatrixes in skimpy leather outfits and outrageous boots, whom I 93 The Courage to Submit had only seen in grainy photos and worshipped from afar, were now standing before me in three glorious dimensions.

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